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This isn't something that I wanted to post.

But it IS something I felt that I should post.

I ramble a lot about problems that I encounter in patterns, I rant when little tiny minor things bother me, I write little mini documentary dramas when I can't find the right bead color. Part of this is genuinely because when I'm in front of a keyboard I just let my thoughts string out, it's far more than I would ever say in person. Part of it is just because that's how I learn (and share) what I do and don't like, how I fixed it to make it something I love or do like, and an attempt to inspire others.

But you know, as it turns out, I ended up intimidating some people instead of inspiring them. And that's just not cool.

A fellow stitching deviant had read my rant on Heaven and Earth Designs, via the Storykeeper bookmark:

She told me that since reading it she hasn't wanted to work on her HAED patterns and it's been eating away at my heart ever since.

I don't really know how to properly convey what my feelings on it are... it's like, you know, my feelings on HAED haven't changed. It's not really that I regret typing all that out. But it's sort of like I'm in this sudden aspect of responsibility, that a slight on my peers' choices really is affecting them - likewise when it's praise. It's not something I'm used to. I want her to work on whatever she likes working on! Just because I don't like it doesn't mean she shouldn't! If everyone liked exactly the same things the world would be an incredibly boring place (quadrupaly so if it was just all the boring stuff I care for).

So here I am! I'm showing you the messy backs of the owls to say, "I'm not perfect!" Some stitchers (I'm looking at you, DoidaPorTi ) have the cleanest backs of their stitching you'll ever seen - the backs look almost exactly the same as the front, a tidiness that just blows my mind. And it's sort of a point of pride for stitchers... some contests that Katjakay has told me about the judges flip your pieces over and judge on the backs too, and I'm just... like... I know I would never, ever win that prize. I remember when I went to haveΒ Resonant framed the lady goes, "You know, you can tell a lot about a stitcher's skill by how clean the back is," and then she turned it over and I was just mortified. ;-; It's just a tangle of blue and black knots back there!! Don't look at that - Nobody is supposed to look at that! But it was already done.

My point is just this... I nitpick and ramble about my own stuff. It's my stuff. Stuff about my stuff bugs me. Artists are their own worst critics and all that, right? But your stuff is your stuff and you should strive to make yourself happy with it.

Here are the owls:



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Comments: 25

Anony-mouse-cat [2018-08-05 04:34:09 +0000 UTC]

I hate it so much sometimes when someone starts to perceive your opinion as so high that their own skill becomes valueless. It's one of the most painful, most frustrating things to figure out how to cope with another's opinion when it's a good opinion that they've turned into a weapon against themselves.

Thank you for sharing this, and take care of yourself too.

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pinkythepink In reply to Anony-mouse-cat [2018-08-09 02:05:51 +0000 UTC]

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Sapphiet [2018-06-19 21:13:29 +0000 UTC]

I can sympathise with that when it comes to sewing

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pinkythepink In reply to Sapphiet [2018-06-19 23:55:41 +0000 UTC]

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SillyTillyStudios [2018-05-30 22:42:35 +0000 UTC]

What an inspirational description. Thank you

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pinkythepink In reply to SillyTillyStudios [2018-05-31 07:06:53 +0000 UTC]

You're welcome.

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Mattsma [2018-05-28 15:37:55 +0000 UTC]

I tell people that all of the time even though I am one of those who prides themselves on their backsides.........but that was how I was taught and instructed by stitchers far wiser than myself.Β  You are an excellent stitcher regardless of your backside!Β  The contests we have on stitchingpirates are front side only which really does make it easier for our stitchers to focus on what counts.........that pretty front side

I hope that the person who feels they can no longer work on their HAED can re-group and pick it back up.Β  It's the joy of stitching which is the real point and if a particular designer does something a particular way and you like it, there's no shame in that.Β  Each stitcher has their own "thing"!

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pinkythepink In reply to Mattsma [2018-05-28 21:06:31 +0000 UTC]

Thank you Carla! Yeah - I'm all self taught on my stitching, so making the back a mess has just never bothered me. If I had someone to show me how to do it right the first time I'm sure things would probably be neater.

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Mattsma In reply to pinkythepink [2018-06-05 16:44:00 +0000 UTC]

well next time I come to the Oasis, I shall show you Β  It's a bit fussier and you might just say POO ON THAT and keep doing it your way

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Narmita08 [2018-05-28 08:57:06 +0000 UTC]

Wonderful post!

I'm still at a stage where I usually don't worry about the tidyness of the backside. Part of that is due to a lot of my works (specially smaller ones) end up being as cards (back is hidden), to be framed by myself (again back hidden), sewn onto something or two parts get sewn together (biscornu, keyfob,...). The only type of project where I do bother about it are bookmarks. Hidden backside or not, it's always a headach for me to keep it tidy.


Now, I have to admit, I really like seeing the backsides of finished projects. They're kind of the 'hidden art' of what the stitcher did. A hidden creativity so to say. They might even show different figures or motives (e.g. your backside of the Long Eared Owl looks like a butterfly or moth to me). I'll never get tired of seeing these little art pieces, too

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pinkythepink In reply to Narmita08 [2018-05-28 21:07:36 +0000 UTC]

Aww, such a wonderful way to look at it! It's so cheerful! I'm totally with you on this - bookmarks are the only pieces where I'm constantly wondering about how to finish the ends off without it becoming a bulky mess.

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Fusainne [2018-05-28 07:53:32 +0000 UTC]

Well, the framer lady is not wrong - it does take skill to have a clean back. It's just a skill almost completely unrelated to those required to have a pretty front

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pinkythepink In reply to Fusainne [2018-05-28 21:07:49 +0000 UTC]

True! But we both know she didn't mean it like that haha

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Hand-Sam-Art [2018-05-28 07:21:05 +0000 UTC]

Behind the masterpieces are headaches ... which hopefully the final result makes it all worthwhile.

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pinkythepink In reply to Hand-Sam-Art [2018-05-28 21:07:56 +0000 UTC]

I think so

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Saraeustace91 [2018-05-27 23:53:56 +0000 UTC]

Beautiful ❀️

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pinkythepink In reply to Saraeustace91 [2018-05-28 00:21:08 +0000 UTC]

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Phenometron [2018-05-27 22:08:03 +0000 UTC]

Excellent work, yo!

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pinkythepink In reply to Phenometron [2018-05-28 00:21:20 +0000 UTC]

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NevaSirenda [2018-05-27 21:54:54 +0000 UTC]

Very true, Pinky! It took me YEARS of experimenting and teaching from others to get to a point where my stitching and designing was considered "Industry Standard". And as long as I'm not stitching a photography sample for a magazine, I still don't. If these are the kinds of patterns you love and you love the way they look when they're done, that is your style and nobody has the right to argue with that. Your taste and your preferences are yours and you should stand by them. You do you. That's what life is about.


However.


Having gone back and read your comments about HAED, I have to say that their process -- which seems to be the process of a LOT of people selling patterns on the internet -- is something that irks the hell out of me as a professional designer. What they are doing is taking a piece of artwork, scanning it into the design program, and letting the computer do all the work. All they do is scale it to fit (and sometimes not even that.)


THAT IS NOT DESIGNING.


That is how you end up with 150 floss colors when you only need 20, because the computer sees transitional colors that aren't really there. That is how you end up with a half-unreadable chart because you're not choosing your symbols to reflect the value of the colors. That is how you end up stitching over one fabric thread on 32-count linen, not intentionally or with purpose in mind, but because you haven't bothered to scale the art correctly. That is pure damn laziness.


And yet many people consider it the mark of an expert stitcher to be able to stitch these patterns. Well, you DO have to be really damn good as a stitcher to make sense out of them, so I will grant you that. But as Thelonious Monk once said, "Being complicated is easy. What's hard is being simple - as simple as Bach."


Now, for them to charge $150 for a custom pattern is reasonable. In fact, it is below the average for what a professional designer gets selling to a commercial publisher. BUT. What I earn per design as a professional designer is for 10-20 hours of choosing floss colors one by one under a color-neutral light, against the fabric they will be stitched on, to make sure everything balances, choosing symbols so that the chart will look enough like the finished piece so the stitcher will always know where she is, and placing each stitch one by one to make the design fit the desired size and look as smooth and ideal and, in the case of an adaptation, as close to the original artwork as possible. To charge $150 for five minute's worth of scanning something and letting the computer do all the work and pretending you did it yourself is highway robbery. And it annoys the hell out of me.


All you guys out there -- you keep doing you, whatever you is, because you love it and you are proud of it. And I'll keep doing me because I love what I do and I am proud of it. This is my artistic medium, as much as oil paint or watercolor or digital painting is for other people. And every design I make will always, ALWAYS be an original.

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pinkythepink In reply to NevaSirenda [2018-05-28 00:27:17 +0000 UTC]

Thanks for your comment, Neva! I'm really glad to hear we're in agreement over all of that, and extra glad to hear that our pattern process is fairly similar.

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blackhavikgraphics [2018-05-27 21:46:53 +0000 UTC]

i do graph blankets in crochet. it depends on the pattern itself when i start/make it if i'm going to wind up having to back it with fleece to hide the 'tails'. you're not alone! i did a blanket for a friends son, and because hesΒ still an infant i backed it with fleece. not having to worry about ends coming loose or coming through the stitches, much less the stitches coming loose on the front is a huge relief. i'd rather the backing be an absolute MESS vs having to worry if my front stitches are going to come out in the wash or while it's being used. you're not alone, no fiber artist is. we all make a mess, but its our craft. it matters more about the fully finished product than the back of it to me. if my back is a wreck of ends, and my front is pristine and clean and you can see the design perfectly, that's where you've done your craft properly. backing is exactly that, backing. who turns over a cross stitch in a frame to see what a mess of ends and tails the back is? rarely anyone. so why is your beading or my crochet any different? we love our craft, we put countless hours of effort to build our craft and be productive with it. if someone criticisesΒ your backs, thats on them. theres a reason for backs on fiber crafts. so we dont have to waste more by cutting and tying. it makes it easier to carry sometimes across the back, and it saves time as well when you're on a crunch.

your work is beautiful, and i personally am jealous that i can't do beading like yours (mostly due to my arthritis in my hands and wrists), but know your work is appreciated, regardless of what the backside looks like

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pinkythepink In reply to blackhavikgraphics [2018-05-28 00:23:42 +0000 UTC]

Thank you so much for your kind words! Yes - the backs are just the backs! I don't know why anyone would stress themselves out so much extra trying to make the backs perfect. As long as it doesn't cause bumps or tension problems on the front whooo careeees. Doubley so when you're covering stuff with stuff like fleece, all the ends get contained in the middle.

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blackhavikgraphics In reply to pinkythepink [2018-05-28 00:46:14 +0000 UTC]

Exactly. Especially when its for kids, i dont want digits getting caught up in strings. The back if the blanket im currently working on is a mess, but i am going to cover it bc the friend its for has Dystonia. Basically (from how I understand it) she has severe all over body seizures and/or spasms. So definitely backing it for her.

Nobody should be judging bc of the backs, its the back, its how we keep knots off the front! Lol

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pinkythepink In reply to blackhavikgraphics [2018-05-28 21:05:20 +0000 UTC]

Ohhhh, that's such sad news, I'm sure she's going to love the blanket!!

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