TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2020-01-19 06:07:42 +0000 UTC]

hewwwOO

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to zigzaggin-goon [2019-07-11 06:13:36 +0000 UTC]

OH HI!!!

It's been a while!!!!

I don't use deviantart much anymore for communication purposes!!! If you wanna keep up, I have a twitter (@/Milksage) and I have telegram if you'd like that as well!!! Or discord????

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zigzaggin-goon In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2019-07-11 22:46:56 +0000 UTC]

FOLLOWED YA WITH BOTH MY ACCOUNTS-- I'LL DM YOU MY DISCORD ON THERE!!

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to zigzaggin-goon [2019-07-12 00:53:48 +0000 UTC]

followed back so we can stay in touch ;OOO;

I'll add ya discord when you DM me via twitter!! thank you so much friendo!!! ; 7;/

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-10-04 04:48:17 +0000 UTC]

bruh how are you!!!

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-10-04 17:10:48 +0000 UTC]

Going through some stuff as usual, but okay! ;V; <333333
How have you been?!?!??? <3333333333333

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-10-04 18:13:44 +0000 UTC]

Ahhh!!! I missed you tho, I'm glad you're doing okay.
I've been very well-- I finished college in March, so my life has been dedicated to trying to find work and focusing on doing so, so that I can move out.

How's the kid?? uwu

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-10-05 02:26:49 +0000 UTC]

<33333333333

That's great! Hopefully you'll get to that next step in good time c:
<3
Nothing new here, at least good stuff. The bf has lumbar disc degenerative disease we recently found out. So he's been out of work since June.
He is going back to work in a few weeks though, with special requests (like no lifting or climbing poles. He works for cable).
The kid is good. Just turned 3!
I'm still stay at home. I'm hoping to get him settled into being watched so I can practice driving and go to school. I really want to move on with my life.
Lime Roll died. Not sure if you remember her, she was my iguana.

aaand think that's it. ;o;

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-10-05 06:23:11 +0000 UTC]

It really sucks that your bf has that ; 3;....
That sounds like it could be painful, but also like it might be really difficult to deal with moving forward.
On the bright side, if he is still able to work, that's great. uwu <3

Ahh i'm glad to hear your kid is well as well!
Age 3 is a great age in my opinion, because that's when you can really see their personality form and really solidify. Especially if they are speaking really well at that point.

AHh it would be great to get your life rolling ovo!!
What kind of schooling are you gonna take???

Ahh wow i'm sorry about Lime Roll ; OO;

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-10-05 17:07:36 +0000 UTC]

We're still figuring all of that stuff out, but he is feeling a little better when he does his exercises multiple times a day.
He's stubborn, so he wants to go back to work. Though, I don't blame him. He doesn't want to do IT again, and I don't want him to either since IT was the shitfest of always being laid off..
Buttt yeah. We'll see how it goes in the future. We're needing to buy another truck since his got rear-ended. Still works, but it has its issues.

Right now he's actually a butthole xD
He went from nice and quiet, to loud, angry and cranky all day. lol

I want to do veterinary! I was going to do car mechanic stuff a couple of years ago, but I've always wanted to do animal things and I think that's what I'll do.
Hoping to one day work at my zoo. I love it, it's one of my dream jobs. Wild animals <3
I'm not sure specifically what I'll be doing though, I'll need to talk to someone and figure out everything. But I do want to do wild animal stuff at the zoo *^*

Yeah :c
It was really unexpected. She meant so much to me and I really miss her.

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-10-12 14:40:03 +0000 UTC]

I wish you the absolute best.
When you have a passion for something, it makes it a lot easier to pursue it as a career.
Hopefully that will make it easier and whatnot for you.
Schooling can be kinda difficult sometimes, especially with a family right?
uwu

And oh man, replacing cars isn't cheap > __<;;;
so many expenses ;__;

I'm so sorry about Lime
Are you planning on getting another one anytime soon??

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-10-13 23:55:14 +0000 UTC]

Yeah we'll see ;v;
I'm not prepared to enter that part of my life. I want to do it and get it done so I can have good income and move on with life, but I'm also very nervous.
Sometimes I just wish I was a normal person.

Yeahhh. Always a struggle haha.

A couple who runs a reptile organization gifted me a rescue boy not too long after she passed. They knew her empty enclosure was just making it worse and I needed my routine back.
He's a 2 year old blue iggy. Has a smushed face/nose and is very small for his age. Doesn't like being handled or near. But I've made good progress with him with the small time I've given him (Been busy the past couple of weeks ahh...).
But he's calm when I finally have him out and I take him to the bathroom. He still needs to get used to the rest of the place.

He's an ass, but a joy. Not too different from Leemy.

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-11-28 23:58:52 +0000 UTC]

I'm sure the two of you will bond eventually.
Some animals just tkae more time than others i guess, and it's cool that you know so much about lizards to actually be able to recognize how to care for them instead of just giving them away when they aren't doing enough (or at least that's how it looks to some).
I've always wished i could have a snake, but i feel like i just wouldn't do well with pets that don't really bond in an obvious way.

More so though, i would really like an opossum or a ferret... one day soon hahahaha

Also, i agree, sometimes I wish i was a normal person too
but being "weird" and different and having these differences is what makes us unique and at least for me, i have found a lot of people who are like me and understand exactly what i've gone through or what disorders i have haha

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-11-29 01:04:11 +0000 UTC]

He's doing pretty well. Still hates you in his enclosure, but when I take him out he loves me lol.
<3

I would love a possum. ;v; <3

Aha yeah that's true. But I also get treated like I am 100% capable of doing normal things and it's stressful.
Like if I am down about not being able to afford anything, I get told to get a job and be an adult.
Even by my mom.
Like dude. I can't really just DO that. I also have plans and my stubborn self needs to focus on them in order and one at a time.
I ask for patience ;n;

Speaking of my mom and irritating things she says..
I was kinda complaining about Elyas not sleeping. I'm exhausted and tired out of my mind.
And she actually told me that if I hated parenting so much that I should let one of the family adopt him..
Like.
huh.
I can't complain that I'm tired after getting no sleep the past 3 years? My kid doesn't sleep ya'll, sorry. Damn.
>>

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-11-29 04:42:59 +0000 UTC]

wHH, isn't it normal to complain about your kid never sleeping and being noisy??
LOL honestly that's ridiculous. AHhh i'm really not a fan of this kind of insensitive comment, even if it's just a snap.
you obviously love your kid, but i think everyone complains every now and then about things, including the ones we love. Loving someone despite flaws, being occasionally annoyed with them and still caring... honestly it's just a sign of empathy and maturity and adulthood imo??? Idk...
But yeah, ahhh I completely understand the bit about not being able to get a job and needing to be mentally ready for that.
Sometimes we just aren't capable of doing those things until we are absolutely ready, and even then sometimes you gotta take it super slow... It can't be forced either or it only makes it a lot worse and makes you ... like... less ready hahaha

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-11-29 17:52:53 +0000 UTC]

That's what I thought!
And yes, ya shouldn't complain on facebook and yada yada, but that's the place I have to go when I need to.
Because my family and friends are on there so they should understand. But it's funny that the people I actually know in person (family) shut me down when I post something.
Like. I know it's annoying and whatever, but people feel down sometimes and I figured you would want to help them but ok.
(I also see others complain and get support and love, so it tempts me to use it to post something. but I get the opposite).

And damn well I love my kid. But it's very hard for a mentally disabled person to be a SAHM, home all day, with little sleep and no human contact besides her kid.
And whose mattress is very painful that she wakes up throughout the night, even when Elyas isn't the one waking her up, because she is uncomfortable and in pain.
And when she moves, Elyas moves, so she has to stay in that uncomfortable position. Then when she finally wakes up, her hips are so painful she decides to just turn and wake up Elyas and lose sleep anyway.
For 3 years now. Same shit.

I think that's hard. And I can say I'm sure I'm doing a pretty good job. But I don't hear that.
I do struggle and get down a lot. This is hard. And I don't have the love and support I need.
I'm basically doing this alone. My bf is here, yes, but he works a lot and we get no time together besides the weekend. And even then, it consists of mostly driving around.

-shrug-
That kinda turned into a rant.

Yes ;v;
That is very true, exactly.
And honestly, this all would be done by now if I didn't have Elyas. He pushed it back a good few years. I'm hoping to try school next year but we'll see what happens.

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-11-29 20:07:24 +0000 UTC]

LOL it's totally fine, i don't mind the rant
I understand how hard it would be-- like I can't imagine it because I don't have a kid, but I can imagine being someone mentally disabled and having to deal with not only your own problems on a daily basis, but trying to put the problems of your child in front of you. Having no familial support can also be incredibly difficult and make things just a lot harder to go through. I'm glad however, that you and your bf are still together, and you make it work regardless of the amount of time you spend together. Elyas sounds like a really lucky kid to have someone like you as a mom, and have a dad that works really hard to put food and things on the table. Both of you sound like great parents, so don't ever let anyone make you think otherwise.
My mom went through a lot of the same things you are describing to me, and I am so proud and grateful for the things she's done for me. I don't doubt that Elyas will one day feel the same way, even if it takes him a while to understand that.

Also, I understand having things pushed back, especially when you got a mouth to feed.
You're a good mama. I totally get wanting to get further in life though, and I have the confidence you will get there eventually, you just need to take the time to do it and gain some confidence doing it. <3

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-11-29 20:53:24 +0000 UTC]

I just want to say, that I really appreciate your words in this comment ;v;
I'm sure I would be doing a lot better mentally, if I only heard kind words like this when I need them.
I put my self down a lot, and hearing the terrible comments on my pleas for help makes that worse.
So I'm glad to hear those, thank you.

<3


;v;
idk what else to say. This comment just really means a lot to me. <3
I love that you understand. I do. I feel so much less alone.

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Frilled-Aten [2017-11-29 22:50:18 +0000 UTC]

Dude, you are never alone, there are people who care a lot about you, like myself.
I'm glad that my words meant a lot to you-- but I really did mean them, and I think in time you will learn and understand the same as any human, especially a parent uvu
By the way, I do have telegram and discord now as well-- If you ever need a buddy, and you have one or both of those,
just pass your usernames on to me and I'll send ya'll a message / add you uvu <3

Also you don't need to say anything!! I understand that you appreciated what I said!

In other news, I forgot to mention that Aten made me really want to design a character with some kind of frill-- and although I never quite got there, or at least to something I really like, I did manage to make a cobra dude that I've been itching to draw, and super tempted to draw them together xDD Puff buddies, hahaha

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Frilled-Aten In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-11-30 18:23:13 +0000 UTC]

;;v;;<3

Ah yes! My discord isssAten#0120
I have Telegram too uvu @Frillface <3

<3

COBRA DUDE YES
POFFYPOOFS<333
;v;///////

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to wiccathornyhorns [2017-09-27 01:49:26 +0000 UTC]

You are so very welcome!!! <3

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to billowbeast [2017-07-18 22:05:12 +0000 UTC]

<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
AHHHHHHHHHHHH
WHERE'VE YOU BEEN ; H ;

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billowbeast In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-07-18 22:06:29 +0000 UTC]

DED APPARENTLY 
I need to get your fb or snapchat or telegram or something so we can keep in contact dude

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to billowbeast [2017-07-18 22:08:10 +0000 UTC]

dude i got telegram
gIve me UR telegram i'll add u
i don't have fb or snapchat LOL

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billowbeast In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-07-18 22:12:14 +0000 UTC]

yAS It's vholkrum there too!

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to tjdtw [2017-06-26 23:11:03 +0000 UTC]

THANKSSSSS!!!!

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Xocoa [2017-05-30 17:32:59 +0000 UTC]

HOW DARE!!!

LOL hi

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Xocoa In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-05-30 18:02:21 +0000 UTC]

how are youuuuuuuuuuuu? it's been like 2+ years lol

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Xocoa [2017-05-30 18:38:02 +0000 UTC]

I... has it really been that long??
if it has, then jesus christ it's been forever.
LMAO


I'm doing well!!
I was actually wondering where you went to

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Xocoa In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-05-30 19:28:38 +0000 UTC]

Yuuuuuup. I'm glad I was in your thoughts c':
I have no clue where I went lol. Stopped drawing for the longest time.
I see you're a fuzzball now lol. I'm so glad to hear from me

Now you get to tell me the story of your life the past two years weeee! <3 

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Xocoa [2017-05-31 00:41:30 +0000 UTC]

I'M GLAD YOU'RE BACK
LOL yes i'm a fuzzbutt, i've been in the fandom since 2015 but i've basically been one for as long as i remember and it finally  dawned on me so i was like  a l r i g  h t
LOL

Basically my life in the past 2 years
i got out of an abusive friendship
i bought a fursuit
i made a million new ocs
i graduated secondary school
i've been looking for work in my field

basically sums it up!!

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Xocoa In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-05-31 00:53:40 +0000 UTC]

Oh, that's a lot :0 and ye I'm super glad to hear from you. I was poking in all the wrong places and thought I couldn't get back in touch lol derp.

A million more <.> omg i'll never get through them all
And yay for the power to leave behind bad friendships :/
AND YAY GRADUATION AND JOINING THE JOB SEARCH MARCH

Uh my life in the past two years... 
starting grad school
joining and leaving SL but rolling around in the fuzz community 80% of the time i was there
figuring out i'm in an abusive home environment and trying to get out of that
a lot of ups and downs but finally getting creative again
getting back in touch with long lost ppl including my bro
making a new character that turned out to look like groot and omg he's so coot... oh that's the past day lol.
and yes, job search lol

please bestow on me the art of making good ocs that last and can be used for things xD

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Xocoa [2017-06-01 04:09:03 +0000 UTC]

It is a lot!! I'm sure there was more but those are the biggest, most important things.
Recently i've made some ocs I'm super attached to!!! One of them is Eli (Elliot)

That's cool that you figured that out.
Did you manage to move out or find somewhere better to live???
And omg really cool getting in touch with your bro!!

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Xocoa In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-06-01 04:38:50 +0000 UTC]

Eliiiii -dives into your gallery-

And nope I'm still stuck here tryna stay sane.

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Xocoa [2017-06-01 17:15:34 +0000 UTC]

Aww man.
Well i'm sure you'll be out soon enough ; H ; <3

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Xocoa In reply to TranslucentRainbow [2017-06-01 17:17:18 +0000 UTC]

I hope so >.>;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;
job search hasn't turned anything up yet lol i may have to go for random jobs but we'll seeeeeeeeee

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to Xocoa [2017-05-30 17:32:49 +0000 UTC]

HOW DARE!!!

LOL hi

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TranslucentRainbow In reply to lordmegi [2017-03-01 02:28:57 +0000 UTC]

ahh you're welcome!!!! ; V ;

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